GUYS / MEN ONLY: Why would my husband keep his Hi5 account or ringo, etc...?

Why would my husband keep his Hi5 account? Or any other account that allows him to have contact with other people (namely GIRLS) When girls contact him on it? (e-mail, whatever) and he knows I don't like it? He says it is ok as long as he doesn't contact them back. Why would he keep it? I don't understand.


and WHY would he want to look at "chicks" if he is MARRIED? why? does he want or is cheating on me??

GUYS / MEN ONLY: Why would my husband keep his Hi5 account or ringo, etc...?
do you have a myspace account? if he doesn't hide the fact that he has the accounts then he simply is using the accounts to keep in touch with friends. what's wrong with that?
Reply:A guy doesn't just stop being aware of women the moment he gets married. Men are very visual creatures. The testosterone that stimulates his interest in you also nudges him to be generally interested. It's his self-discipline and commitment stepping in that keeps him at home.





That said, getting fully on board with a commited relationship involves some lifestyle changes. Since he's married, it's time for him to stop playing the field. That doesn't mean never talking to another woman ever again, or never having female friends. It does mean disconnecting from flirting opportunities and social sites that cater to folks who are looking for a partner.





Is his behavior an automatic indication that he's messing around? No. However, if he gets to sneaking about it or defensive and dug-in about stopping, then it's time for a serious conversation...
Reply:ma'am, i just think you're overreacting. why not get yourself an account? maybe try and break into his! badadbing.
Reply:Ok your married you need to make him delete them, when i started dating my bf that was the first thing delete everything, profiles on dating sites, etc. Married men do not need to be chatting to other girls, end of story, you need to regulate!!!
Reply:lol, well, i wouold say he is not cheating on you, if he has a myspace u make one, become his friend and see what he des on it, or make him show u his sites and if he is haveing contact with toehr women watch him and get on his account and delete it.
Reply:I never heard of the site however I went to this site and review what was on there. It looks like an ok site to keep in contact with friends. i suggest you talk to your husband about it just to see what will say
Reply:It is normal for all men to look once in awhile, just because he looks at porn doesnt mean he is going to cheat on you. as for the real women he is talking with, they need to disappear asap.


no temptation = no problems
Reply:He is keeping the account for the very reason you wrote this question. You're nagging him. He is keeping the account just in case it doesn't work out with you. There's something in your relationship that he doesn't like and wants an improvement. But, he will not admit that there is a problem.





For now, yes, he may not be contacting any of them. But, he is keeping his options opened.
Reply:Looking stimulates a guy. It doesn't mean he's cheating.
Reply:He's maintaining his escape hatch.





If something happens between the two of you, he knows that he has 'an emotional escape plan.' Unfortunately, it's preventing him from being fully committed to your marriage.
Reply:i think he is looking for affection you give him affection you come on to him make him feel loved do you nag him guess i would have to know them things too
Reply:He's keeping his options open
Reply:We are visual creatures so looking at "chicks' is not a bad thing, sorry we are more open to our lust than women r.
Reply:Looking at other "Chicks" is normal, but when he wants to be contacted by them is another. Maybe it makes him feel like a "Stud" to have these girls write to him, but how long is he going to hold off on writing back?

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